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The Girl Next Door (Day Seven)

The choice and desire to own and manage my own business wasn’t entirely all about income and wealth. It also involved the desire for independence, satisfaction (pride) and self-actualization ( self-esteem). It would allow me the opportunity to utilize my skills and aptitudes freely to achieve my goals.

It gave me an opportunity to decide to be my own boss.

We both know  clearly, that through our daily lives and experiences, it is possible to be satisfied with your life without indulging yourself with material artifacts. I am pretty sure you know where I am headed; which is “living a frugal lifestyle”.

I wanted to be happy.  Happy to help people and I had often heard that people who had great empathy tend to be happy folks. How was I to achieve that? What adversity did I have to overcome to enhance my resolve and character? What more could I do to make success taste sweeter when it arrives?

The fear of the unknown crippled me. It literally became my cornerstone of panic, and we know where this would eventually lead to… – Financial Disaster.

Well, sometimes, i could a little bit  dramatic, carried away with high sounding and fearful words, but you get the drift.

What did I do? Continue reading

Happiness Is…

“HAPPINESS IS FOUND IN DOING NOT MERELY IN POSSESSING”

Are you truly happy?

Do you even know what it means to be happy and what it takes to achieve happiness?

These are important questions for anyone who is seeking happiness to ask themselves.

I try to live my life to maintain my own happiness while trying my best to not cause unhappiness to anyone else.

If you want to be happy you need to understand that you can be happy and that you should be happy. Many people make the mistake of believing that they don’t deserve happiness and accept their unhappy state as their destiny.
The truth of the matter is that happiness, like anything else in life, needs to be nurtured.

How??? Continue reading